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Life Coaching/Dealing with Negative feelings

02 Tuesday Feb 2021

Posted by Carries Blog Network in Creating a vision, Dreams and ambitions, Everyday living, Inspiration board, New Beginnings, People, Personal Development, Positive Habits, project 2021, Related pages, Work, Youtube videos

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Hello and welcome! So I have created more video content for my current Life Coaching programme and so go and check these out. New Life Coaching video content for my programme “Project 2021”

IN THIS BLOG I AM TALKING ABOUT DEALING WITH NEGATIVE FEELINGS AND JEALOUSY WHICH I TALK ABOUT IN THE VIDEO LINKED ABOVE AND IS ONE THAT IS NEGATIVE AND HAS A MASSIVE IMPACT TO YOUR HAPPINESS AND WELLBEING.

People say that Jealousy is healthy and keeps like your spouse on their toes, but being someone who has been targetted by those that have been jealous I disagree. In fact being someone who was once a Jealous person it is not a nice feeling at all, and its like what Mel Robbins says, your basically saying “There isn’t enough of what that person has to go around, and your not worthy of doing that too”.

I was targetted quite badly for someone who felt that way and it was as if I had no rights of a life of many amazing things because they felt they wouldn’t and so why should I. I am going to be blunt here: THAT AIN’T MY FAULT.

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I stopped my jealousy by asking myself questions, like: So do I want that person to fail or not have a life? How would I feel if they did that to me? and it has made me address, face and handle.

To get rid of negative feelings including resentment which comes with jealousily and hatred because someone is doing better than you, but you don’t want to feel that way either, Address those feelings by asking questions like above, Face them because if you try to ignore them the stronger those feelinngs can grow within you and handle, so deal with them so they go away from your thoughts and fears.

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Now if there is a person who knows you are feeling that way and play on those feelings so a boyfriend purposely kisses someone else in front of you, knowing that you are going to be upset then that is different, and they are doing it to be spiteful and this is where you can say “What was that about and why?” and then walk away unless they follow.

There are people who will play with your insecurities, but this doesn’t make them super confident it means they are insecure more than you, as they think to help them stop feeling like they don’t like themselves aim it at you to make themselves feel superior to you.

Those feelings can have a tendency to rub off on you, and before you know it your doing it.

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Fear is often a course of negative feelings, because we fear that if they do well means that it may mean we never will, but anyone can be successful but creating their own work, so not copying and using your own talents and interests for you to have a happy life aswell. Check out video: Finding your Talent.

Example McDonalds and Burger King. So McDonalds was formed in America in the 70’s and was the it fast food restaurtant to go to, and it took over our English version Wimpy, and the guy from McDonalds who was the creator knew that if he could come over to England and open up here aswell as America then it has a good chance to reach other countries.

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Then someone who worked at McDonalds wanted to make their own version and build a fastfood Franchise but got jealous of McDonalds rein and even threatened to close McDonalds down as they were told where ever you build your fastfood restaurant we will be there too so you will never be as big.

Yet the top two fastfood outlets in the 90’s were McDonald and Burger King. They were at logger heads all the time, but they both succeeded and both had restaurants all over the world. So there is always enough to go around and still stand out against others who do the same as you, but if you put your own stamp on what you do then you can be as successful.

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The other negative feeling is not feeling like you are part of anything. I felt like this for ages and it did get to me. I remember being invited to someone’s anniversary party when I worked in a holiday camp and feeling like would stand out like sore thumb and not really be wanted there, and was only being invited because who I was romantically with.

If you feel like this then ask yourself. Do I have friends that will be there in a shot if they knew I was feeling like this? Do you get on with these people? What I do when I feel this way is say, “Okay it may be that no if I weren’t with a certain person perhaps I wouldn’t be invited but can I change their mind by being happy for an invite and show them that I am worthy of their company?” Yes I can and I did.

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There are those who can make you feel inadequate but if I am going to an unfamiliar ground but feel I have to go to someone’s party because at the same time not want to let that person down, is tell yourself like I have “You don’t have to stay and there is always a door you can walk out of”.

I have suffered with social anxiety because I have been with people in a romantic way and have been cheated on and that can hit you like a knife but because I knew the relationship was over did like above, Addressed, Faced and Handled and then I was like “Okay that is fine, I did fight for it but now know it is time to walk away” and you can tell yourself that as human nature intended to listen to your gut instinct if it is good or bad to stay or go, it will let you know.

Another negative feeling is towards yourself. Not able to look in the mirro and I get this alot and hve been like it since I was a kid. Sometimes the image of myself in my head was different to what I saw in the mirror and so have a notepad and write down the things you do like about yourself.

We can be harder to ourselves than to other people and we all have a uniqueness and qualities and so go through it and if you say “There’s nothing that I like” then ask a friend to do this for you and have them read it out to you. You’ll be surprised as to what they see that you don’t about yourself.

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Feeling ugly is hard hitting and so have a day where you pamper yourself, or do something that makes you feel good. I find having a skincare routine can help and I have done a video talking about what I keep in make up bag and current skincare products I use.

Try and do something differet each day. So two night ago I decided to introduce a new item into my routine and that is choose a song a day and put it on Twitter and it will be a song that has been part of my life and I did this as it gives me a lift and reaches to those too who need that.

I also in one of my journals write a wish a day or a few and it is helping me feel better as this week I have been a bit run down and so it is good to find these little things that stops my negative thoughts and feelings and make each day count.

So I hope that this blog has helped you and see you in another one.

Many thanks for reading,

Carrie L.M X

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Goals Questionnaire For 2021!

26 Thursday Nov 2020

Posted by Carries Blog Network in Creating a vision, empowerment, Goal setting, Personal Development, Work

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Hello and welcome!

So as we draw nearer to Christmas it will soon be another year over, into a new year and if you haven’t set your goals, now’s the time to start.

To help you I have created a Printable for you, to help you set your goals for 2021, and is a questionnaire.

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I have set out my goals that I have mentioned in previous posts written recently, that I have separated my goals in three categories:

  • Home
  • Work
  • Play

I would like to do a video on this, but going to do this in the new year, as I have so many things I would love to develop too.

So set your goals and don’t hold back, be ruthless and aim high.

Many thanks for reading,

Carrie X

P.S: Check out my JustGiving page that I have set up to donate money to Tommy’s who support families who have experience Stillbirths and Premature births:

https://www.justgiving.com/fundraising/theparentingadventuresprematurebirths

Ten goals to end the year on a positive note

11 Wednesday Nov 2020

Posted by Carries Blog Network in career building, Creating a vision, empowerment, Everyday living, Goal setting, how to deal with those that drag you down, Personal Development, Positive Habits, Work

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If you had read my previous post this year didn’t start off too well, but as the year has gone on, with more heartache events happening, I want to end the year on a positive note by following these ten goals to help me:

  1. Have two books written and published
  2. Get back into my fitness
  3. Spend time with the positive people in my life
  4. Have a new home
  5. Continue to grow my audience with writing more blogs
  6. Have a better Christmas than the last one
  7. Do some more videos for my Youtube channel
  8. Invest in another pair of black trousers
  9. Rearrange my wardrobe by putting outfits together
  10. Finally create a end of year vision board of these things to develop another vision board for the following year

I am all about setting goals, and now I have shared some of mine, why not tell me by using the comments section below of one goal you would like to accomplish by the end of the year, too.

Life is about creating happiness and success in your life. There are those who are selfish and want to destroy it, because they don’t like to see people being happy, but leave them in their misery whilst you thrive.

Many thanks for reading,

Carrie X

Developing a programme that advances your life

09 Monday Nov 2020

Posted by Carries Blog Network in career building, empowerment, Everyday living, Goal setting, New Beginnings, Personal Development, Positive Habits

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List should always be about living the best life you can live, and that means developing a programme that advances your life.

WHAT DO I MEAN?

Creating as many things that will bring you happiness, success and all round wellbeing.

First of all do a diagram or a organisational chart or even a road map of the direction you want to take, to create big things into your life.

Example: Becoming a soccer coach

Step 1= Play a game and join a football team

Step 2 = Do a FA coaching qualification or scholarship

Step 3 = Coach a team

You can map it out as you like, it’s just setting it out and making it come true.

I am a goal setter and I make goals for the year but break it down into days, weeks and months.

The other thing is to get rid of some of the old and bring in the new, a sentence that is sung in the Dina Carrol song, “A perfect year”. So anything that you no longer get anything out of now, toss it away.

If you get that “inner critic” in your head then listen to it and shut it down. Create a list of everything that brings you joy now and what will bring you joy, when it is added to your life.

Circle a few that you wanna add with no more than four items at a time so you stop giving yourself to much to do, and break it down so all you want to add to your life, you can. Often from my own experience when going back over this list, my things I want to achieve can change, and that’s ok.

So go for it, live your dreams and be the success you want to be.

Many thanks for reading,

Carrie x

To Make Your Life Your Own

12 Wednesday Aug 2020

Posted by Carries Blog Network in career building, empowerment, Everyday living, Goal setting, Personal Development, Positive Habits, Related pages

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If you didn’t see my last post Online Studying then please check it out as I have created a new Online Course in Good Customer Service, so if you are interest please check it out and enrol. Continue reading →

Be Ruthless in achieving success

24 Sunday May 2020

Posted by Carries Blog Network in empowerment, Everyday living, Personal Development

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Hi everyone welcome to another blog.

In this blog I talk about Be Ruthless in achieving success.

You have to take on challenges and not shy away from them, but face them head on.

Example: My aim for this week was to reach 70 followers to this blog and I have, buy creating content for you all and help you towards success.

I have now managed to accomplish that, and I know that my blogs are being received as I want them to be.

It still requires organizing, prioritization and commitment, but when it comes to blog writing it is quality over quantity, and to help grow my blogs, it does mean blogging every day, and putting content out there that you can relate to and will help you.

Now there are many elements as I do have to look after my son during some days and committing time to all my blogs, please check my Blog Network for details, where I post all my blogs onto.

https://carriesblognetwork.squarespace.com/

Set yourself time, that may mean working early morning whilst the rest of the household are sleeping, working weekends aswell as the evenings, but seeing that I have more followers now, has shown me that all that work is paying off and people like you are using my content to help you.

Don’t care what people think as there will always be those who criticize just have to let it go through one ear and out the other.

You have to make sacrifices aswell like like spending time outdoors, as lot of my work is done via the computer as with all my blogs I do like to research to gain ideas to create my content and share what is going on in my life.

I have ended my marriage which was long time coming as much as some may not want to hear that, but it is true. Why deny that?

Being thankful with the things that make you happy with life, I write in my gratitude journal everyday, and the other is Bullet journal writing lists.

Listening to empowering music, audio books and podcast.

I have doing some further training to help me towards a better and successful life.

Many thanks for reading,

 

Carrie X

 

 

10 Daily Habits of successful people

26 Thursday Mar 2020

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Now I know many of us are in self isolation due to the coronovirus and we have been told not to go out unless truly necessary or socialise but it must not stop us to try and be successful in whatever you do, there are still things you can do to help build a success in life and this is how:

  1. Make your bed everyday
  2. Get dressed and ready for each day
  3. Be organised and still plan for each day
  4. Drink plenty of water and stay well hydrated
  5. Still be frugal yes it is time to stock up on certain items but we can still over spend if not careful as only shopping when necessary can cause us to impulse buy more than anything
  6. Create an email, whatsapp, Facebook or Messenger group and stay in touch with clients, colleagues and customers online and don’t forget Facetime
  7. Take time out to do the little things in life aswell as the big things. Got emails still need to be tended to but just not got round to sorting these out then why not now
  8. Spend time with love ones if possible which is tricky but still stay in contact like above by creating a whatsapp group, my friends and I are going to do this via Whatsapp to celebrate one of our friends birthdays
  9. Take some time out to do self care. There is no time like the present to take a hot steaming bath and just chillax with a book of some sort
  10. As I do each day have a tidy up and go through bits and pieces and great way to get your kids involved, check out my parenting blog Getting Kids to tidy up

So I hope you all stay well protected within this Pandemic and lets hope this all passes soon so we can all get back to some sort of normality

Remember you can keep up to date with all my blogs by following me on WordPress.com and many thanks for reading,

 

Carrie X

Creating daily rituals to create success

19 Thursday Mar 2020

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Hi all it is another day and with the Coronavirus hitting many it is no wonders we have hit a crisis situation, but we can still create daily rituals to create success by following these strategies:

  1. Have breakfast, it really does set you up for the day
  2. Set an alarm mine is always 6;30AM and I get up between 7 to 7:30AM
  3. Go for a walk and work outside the home if you work from home, and spend some time with nature if you can otherwise sit and read a good book about nature
  4. One cup of the day. I wouldn’t live without my tea or coffee and is my go to drink each morning
  5. Do some writing even if it is writing in a journal or a book, I find it really helps clear out my head and get creative

So what rituals do you follow I would love to hear from you. You can comment below

All my blogs can be found on my site:

https://www,carriesblognetwork.squarespace.com

Many thanks for reading,

 

Carrie X

 

Habits of successful people

06 Thursday Sep 2018

Posted by Carries Blog Network in Personal Development, Youtube videos

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Being a Youtube enthusiast I came across this video by Muchelleb  it is about 22 habits of successful people.

It is always good to have some habits that you follow that makes your days successful, that is why I make my bed everyday because it helps set up my day and not want to slip back into bed, and makes me get things done.

I would love to know some habits you have that has made you successful.

Many thanks for reading,

 

Carrie X

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