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Preparing for a new chapter

02 Wednesday Oct 2019

Posted by Carries Blog Network in Everyday living, New Beginnings, Personal Development, Useful articles

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Different paths, Embarking on a new chapter, everybodycanbuildacastle, everydayliving, Good interview questions and answers, How to know when you've found your purpose in life, inspiration, Job interview, New start and another great path, Preparing for a new chapter, Preparing for an interview, Take the bull by the horns, Taking a new direction, Taking risks

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I am about to embark on hopefully a new chapter, as tomorrow I have a job interview for a nursery in Guildford. Preparing for a new chapter can be a risk, but exciting at the same time.

I no longer want take calls from unhappy customers anymore, I’m done with that, and now want to help with my knowledge of looking after children throughout my life and from working in childcare for about a year, now want to enhance my skills and work on a more regular basis.

Today I was preparing myself for my interview, here’s what I think will help you too:

  • Make sure you do your homework about the company
  • Take some form of ID and if you work  in childcare remember your DBS and check if you received confirmation from the company about the interview, if they have provided details of what you need to bring with you
  • Check travel arrangements and direction 
  • Plan ahead, check any travel disruptions or traffic delays if you drive
  • Make sure you take down the company address, telephone number and email address, in case you are delayed or need to rearrange, plus will help you find where it is you need to go
  • Begin to plan what you are going to wear, and make sure you are smart, and you stand out
  • Don’t over do it with perfumes and deodorants, especially if you are going to be working with children, as they may be allergic and super sensitive to these strong smells
  • At the same time, do be hygienic, make sure you wash your hands if you go to the toilet and do shower or take a bath either the night before or the morning
  • Make sure your clothes are clean and tidy, creased free
  • In this day and age it is important that you make sure your mobile phone is fully charged, but put your phone on silent or switched off if possible during the interview
  • Trim nails especially if working in childcare
  • Go over Interview questions and answers. I found some really good ones via the website: https://www.themuse.com/advice/how-to-answer-the-31-most-common-interview-questions
  • Pack your bag the day or night before, especially if you have an interview in the morning, and like me have to do the school run before hand. Helps with stress levels and the last thing you want to be doing is rushing around, because if you are nervous this is only going to make things worse
  • Go over the company information and the interview questions and answers to help prepare you as you get closet to the time. I am gonna do this whilst I commute, will help use up the time and stop me from getting apprehensive and I will also be taking a deep breath in through the nose out through the mouth, and close my mind
  • This will help lead you to switch off for a few moments to help keep yourself calm, listen to music, read or just practice mindfulness.
  • Lastly I wish you good luck

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Please check out my previous blog if you have not done so How to know when you’ve found your purpose in life.

You can keep up to date with my blogs by following me on WordPress.com. Please if you are embarking on a new chapter then please share, I would love to hear from you. You can leave a comment below.

I also share blogs on these sites to:

https://www.carriesrealworld.com/

https://everydaylivingandlifestyle.wordpress.com/

https://theparentingadventurestipsandtricks.wordpress.com/

https://theparentingadventures.wordpress.com/

https://sportsandfitnesspassion.wordpress.com/

I really hope that this will be a new start and another great path that I am about to lead on, and if you are too about to embark on a new chapter then:

“Take the Bull by the Horns and go for it, you never know what is on the other side if you don’t bother trying”.

Many thanks for reading, 

 

Carrie X 

P.S: I also have a Pinterest site and social media sites too, see below:

 

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How to know when you’ve found your purpose in life.

26 Thursday Sep 2019

Posted by Carries Blog Network in Everyday living, Goal setting, Inspiring stories, Personal Development, Youtube videos

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Caroline Myss, Challenges in life, face our fears, Mel Robbins 5 second rule, Mel Robbins new show, Oprah Winfrey, Take many paths, travelling through different chapters, Youtube

How to know when you’ve found your purpose in life.

Found quote on: http://www.oprah.com/spirit/quotes-to-help-you-find-your-lifes-purpose–inspirational-quotes/all

Sometimes it can take time to figure this out, and you may take many paths to find out, however once you found that purpose you’ll be amazed at what you can achieve next.

Here is a video posted by Own, of Oprah Winfrey and Author Caroline Myss, discussing just that.

Youtube video of Oprah Winfrey talking to Author Caroline Myss, of How to know when you’ve found your purpose in life.

We often have to face our fears and get out of our comfort zone, to find our purpose in life and life is about travelling through different chapters to find out who we truly are.

Please check out my previous blog of Mel Robbins First show on TV, where she talks about the 5 second rule which can help you too.

I would like to know if you have found your purpose in life and how you came about it. You can leave a comment below.

If you would like to kept up to date and read more of my blogs on this site, then you can do so by following on WordPress.com by clicking below.

I also write blogs on these sites too.

https://www.carriesrealworld.com/

https://everydaylivingandlifestyle.wordpress.com/

https://theparentingadventures.wordpress.com/

https://theparentingadventurestipsandtricks.wordpress.com/

https://sportsandfitnesspassion.wordpress.com/

Many thanks for reading,

Carrie X

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Mel Robbins new show

18 Wednesday Sep 2019

Posted by Carries Blog Network in Everyday living, Goal setting, Inspiring stories, Personal Development, Youtube videos

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First episode of her new talk show, Mel Robbins 5 second rule, Mel Robbins new show, Taking action, Youtube video

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If you are a fan of Mel Robbins, then check Mel Robbins new show, which launched on the 16th September 2019, and shares how she first began to use the 5 Second Rule.

Check out video of the first Episode below:

It is brilliant to watch and really helps stop you from over thinking and take action.

Remember you can keep up to date of all my blogs by following me on WordPress.com and please share how you have used the 5 second rule in your life by commenting below. I would love to hear from you.

Many thanks for reading,

Carrie X

Billionaires Do This for 10 minutes Every Day

13 Friday Sep 2019

Posted by Carries Blog Network in Everyday living, Goal setting, Personal Development, Youtube videos

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Billionaires Do This For 10 minutes Every Day, How you have created positive differences in your life, Mel Robbins, productivity, Set up your day, Who wants to be a billionaire

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Who wants to be a billionaire? I do…

Check out this video below by Mel Robbins, it is about what Billionaires Do This for 10 minutes Every morning.

Mel Robbins: Billionaires Do This for 10 minutes Every Morning

Let me know what do you do that helps to set up your day and how you have created positive differences in your life.

Please remember that you can keep up to date with my blogs by following me on WordPress.com and if there is a topic you would like me to write about that I haven’t covered or you would like to share what you do that helps to set up your day, then please comment below.

Many thanks for reading,

Carrie X

The Art of keeping a journal

09 Monday Sep 2019

Posted by Carries Blog Network in Cheat sheet, Everyday living, Inspiration board, Personal Development, Printables

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Brain dumping, Keeping a journal, The Art of Keeping a journal, Writing a journal

My Happy Journal

The art of keeping a journal is basically to brain dump all your thoughts onto paper whether negative or positive. It just helps clear the mind, and set a side time for yourself to be with your thoughts for a bit.

I created a cheat sheet, to help those who are new to writing a journal, what to write about.

I keep many journals, one that I share all my happy thoughts and moments in my life and one for my negative most private thoughts. They are all kept in a safe place.

You don’t have to do that, I would suggest to keeping with one for the time being until you get used to it. You can look at Pinterest for ideas aswell.

This is where I build up content for my blogs, being creative can help and make it your own.

So if you want to enjoy the art of keeping a journal and brain dumping your thoughts then why not start now.

It can help put those thoughts in a different perspective.

Please if you liked this blog then click below, and if you would like to read more of my blogs then you can follow me on WordPress.com and if there is a topic you would like me to write about on this blog then please comment below.

If you like to keep a journal then I’d love to hear from you.

Many thanks for reading,

Carrie X

How to manage feelings of being overwhelmed

07 Friday Jun 2019

Posted by Carries Blog Network in having bad days

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How to manage feelings of being overwhelmed can be a hard task as we keep piling more items on our to do lists and being wanted in many different places at once, it just can feel endless.

My first tip is to take some time out for yourself and do some self care, this can be journalling, taking a hot bath, going for a walk or exercising for 5 to 10 minutes each day. Self care means looking after yourself, and if you have kids that is even more important to take some time out for yourself.

Second tip is to be more productive, check out my blog about ten hacks of being more productive, and set a side time for each item on your list, and be realistic as to what you can achieve in the time you have.

Delegate, if there is something for example my husband can do, then I let him, like he will vacuum whilst I go round and dust, he will pop to the shops whilst I am working, life can be a juggling act and why not share the responsibility if there is two of you.

Take time out, and do something other than work, sometimes it can feel like we are glued to our computers, rather than reading a book or watching TV. You are allowed that time, rather than working all the time.

Practice mindfulness, can really help and can help concentrate on what is around us and take in our environment for two to three seconds. That is all it takes.

So next time you feel overwhelmed listen to your mind, if it needs a break take one, everyone needs to be able to recharge their batteries including humans.

I hope you liked this blog, please click below if you did, and remember to follow me on WordPress if you would like to be kept in formed of my posts, and subscribe below.

Let me know how you stop yourself from being overwhelmed I would love to hear, you can comment below or fill in form below.

Many thanks for reading,

Carrie X

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10 Hacks to being more productive

17 Friday May 2019

Posted by Carries Blog Network in having bad days

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If there was a pill that would make us naturally more productive, rather than sitting on the couch all the time, would you take it?

Of course we would, so how do you become more productive?

Here is Ten hacks to being more productive.

  1. Make your bed. Sounds simple, but it can be so easy to slip back in, if it is still all over the place, so make it as soon as you get up
  2. Write a to do list the night before and circle the items that need to be done first
  3. If you have tasks that take 2 minutes do them straight away
  4. Brush your teeth, no one likes a gammy mouth, and I hate talking to people knowing I have bad breath, so brushing your teeth helps you feel better about yourself and sets up the day
  5. Block time out to do things, so if you have ten minutes spare then mark it down, and then if you want to chill for that ten minutes before you continue your day then do so. Use Google Calendar as you can set alerts on your phones, helps keep track on tasks
  6. Listen to an audio book whilst you doing errands. I love doing this when doing some cleaning for examples, makes it seem less of a chore
  7. Learn to say “No” there is nothing worse than double booking yourself, so if you can’t make that party or that event say so, don’t leave people hanging, you wouldn’t like it, so neither will they
  8. Restrict your social media usage through out the day, as this can easily cause us to waste time, unless we are using it to promote our work if you to run a website, a blog or have a Youtube channel
  9. Set days a side to update your Instagram, Facebook or Pinterest account, I do and it helps make sure I don’t spend to long on each task
  10. Schedule time to check your emails, or do this whilst travelling on a bus or train some where, can help speed up the travel time.

So I hope you found this hacks useful and if you have any hacks then let me know by filling in the comment section below or filling in the form below.

Please remember if you did like this blog to click the like button below, and to follow me should you want to be kept update on my blog posts, and remember to subscribe aswell.

Many thanks for reading,

Carrie X

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Managing Mental Health

07 Tuesday May 2019

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As it is coming up to Mental Health month I thought I would speak out, as I too have suffered with mental illness wanted to share how I manage my Mental Health.

It has taken over my life in some cases, to point I needed to be taken to the hospital. Too much was going on in my life, I was in debt, recovering from Post natal Depression, which I was to scared to speak out about, and I felt like I wasn’t happy with myself.

I expect there are people out there who don’t understand about Mental Health and how it can effect people, but it is like your mind taking over your body, not in a good way, and listening to the inner critic all the time.

The one that tells you, your fat and ugly, the one that tells you that life is so terrible and that everyone is better off without you.

All you want to do to that inner critic is shout SHUT THE F**K UP.

You feel like you are falling down a hole that you can’t get out of, as much as you try. There are still days where I get so depressed or my anxiety gets the better of me, that I don’t want to do anything, and it can take over my whole wellbeing.

The constant battle I have had with myself still continues, but I have learned through developing good habits and changing my life around of how to overcome and control my mental health, but it can take a lot of work.

You have to be patient and learn to breath. Mindfulness can really help and makes you look around you, take in your surroundings and just listen to your breathing.

No you don’t have to sit on the floor with your legs crossed, you can practice mindfulness anywhere, check the book Mindfulness On the Go.

If you are sick of seeing the same four walls then get out of there and see something new.

Speak to that friend you have been meaning to contact for ages

Take yourself out of your comfort zone even if it is for 5 seconds, and count 5, 4. 3. 2, 1

Check out my blog about Mel Robbins, The 5 Second Rule

Be willing to make that change and do it gradually, taking as much time as you need.

Let’s support each other, as creating a good foundation is important, check out my blog about Creating a Foundation.

If you like this blog then please click below, and remember to subscribe plus you can follow me on WordPress.com and you’ll be alerted of more of my blogs.

Do you suffer or have suffered with Mental Health? How do you manage it? I would love to hear from you, you contact me by filling in the form below.

Many thanks for reading,

Carrie X

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People I no longer see

28 Sunday Apr 2019

Posted by Carries Blog Network in Everyday living, Love, Personal Development

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As people we drift apart, everyonecanbuildacastle, Learning from other people, People I no longer see, Why people come and go

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There have been many people I know longer see, not because we have fallen out, but as people we can often drift apart, as we get older and we continue to meet different people in our lives.

Without people we no longer see we wouldn’t have met the new people in our lives, as humans we are forever growing, and we learn from others.

Whether it be from other people’s mistakes or how they have become so successful in their life.

I wrote a piece a while ago about creating a foundation in our life, and how it so important, because we need those who help pick us up when we’re down.

However what about the people we no longer see? Well there is the wonders now of Social Media and I have rediscovered those friendships with some of those people through Instagram and Facebook, and it is good to see how much their life has changed developed too.

People evolve through time, and it sad to find out from others that those people we no longer see have passed away, but sadly that is life. People come and go, but the memories is what lasts forever.

I can look back and think about those people I know longer see with a smile, as I know I wouldn’t have gotten this far in my life without them.

I hope you enjoyed this blog, remember to like it below if you did, and remember you can subscribe below or post any feedback by commenting below.

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Many thanks reading,

Carrie X

5 Second Rule by Mel Robbins

14 Sunday Apr 2019

Posted by Carries Blog Network in Books, Everyday living, Goal setting, Personal Development, Useful articles

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5 second rule, Building success in your life, creating abundance, everyonecanbuildacastle.wordpress.com, Feelings of anxiousness, Mel Robbins 5 second rule, stop procrastinate

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So I did a book review on this concept this comes from on my website,

https://www.carriesrealworld.com/book-reviews

If you haven’t heard of Mel Robbins, then it is about time you did, because her philosophy and concept on the 5 Second Rule is brilliant.

Basically you can use it when you feel anxious which I often do, and for when you want to procrastinate, but you know you have to get on with something, and she talks in great details about that, that it is okay to procrastinate sometimes as there are different types, but to make your life more productive.

You can use it for when you keep hitting that snooze button, it is just is brilliant, and really does work.

I find I am without thinking now, getting more stuff done.

So if you not checked out the 5 Second Rule, it’s worth checking it out.

Life is about succeeding into what ever it is you want to achieve, with a little help along the way, and I believe this will help you.

If you like this blog, then press the like button below, and remember you can comment below if you to have tried the 5 second rule and what you thought, by commenting below.

You can also subscribe by filling in form added to this blog and remember to follow me, to keep up to date with my blogs, via WordPress.com.

Many thanks for reading,

Carrie X

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