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Things To Get Rid of And Keep

14 Wednesday Oct 2026

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So the things I have realised I consume the most is clothes. I love fashion but recently I have started to get picky and I love a notebook so I have had to decide what is truly my thing. I want to collect Classic books, make space for a TV with DVD player. In the new year, 2027 I want a new bed with storage and today went through my clothes and sorting through to take to be recycled.

Things I’ve kept and use checkout my Facebook page: https://www.facebook.com/CarriesBeauty4u/

I feel we accumulate so much and we, I mean I and I am going through a change of direction whilst doing this years Autumn Reset and setting up a new Google blog and closing a few of my existing sites down because I feel they’ve come to an end. I will share soon but not yet.

So I am filming for my Youtube channel (https://www.youtube.com/@Carriechalloner) of things I am getting rid of because I find these videos motivating. A word not many like but I feel that you should use a word that works for you. My word for this year was grow but have had to build my motivation to have a bit of encouragement and I feel no shame in that.

I got rid of a cardigan because I can’t roll the sleeves up when washing or cleaning. A White Denim Jacket because I just don’t see myself wearing it and a fleece as I prefer ones with pockets and a bit of shape and so feel good in letting them go. Spray and skincare. I got rid of moisturiser and an eye liner because it would smudge a lot and the cream was sticky and was a well known brand which was pricey and tried it because I had a voucher for it in Boots, but was no good.

I only own two perfumes and that is enough. They were both gifted and like to make them last.

Kitchen wear. I keep avoiding. I love my slow cooker, but want to get rid of kitchen aid because I just don’t use it but something is holding me back. I feel some usage in it but the blender that it came with I got rid of and it has discoloured so I know I need to let it go. See if this happens. Have you an item or area you’ve been avoiding?

I think it is regret. A word I am fearful of but it the cause. I know I’ll feel good in saying goodbye but not sure on where it will go. Any tips would be welcomed. You can comment below.

So yes I like to go through my kitchen and love my tea and coffee station but need to get rid of some items like my kitchen aid. I have cooking equipment they I’ve used for 5 minute then not bothered with it afterwards and I feel I need to bite the bullet and clear my kitchen aid and my baking tools.

Saying goodbye can be tough but you got to be ruthless and the other thing is kids toys. My son loves games like Countdown, tipping point, skittles, football and rugby and his electric guitar. With kids they can go off things but then there interest in it can return. He so particular with his clothes and had to explain that they need to be given to another child as he has so many things that he has not paid any attention too, but then will suddenly be interested. He has a Keyboard, but not paid attention to and sleeps with his clock and toy Penguin he won at Chessington World of Adventures this year, but he now wants a street lamp. He has lamps that my husband bought from Temu and needed USB plugs and not used.

So tip have a box to give to the toy fairy and let them put in the box. We had a skittles set but we moved and it had gone and then he wanted to play with the set again so ordered a new one and played with it for two days and now in its back in it box once again; for kids there’s no time limit and Henry will go to one thing and another. He has footballs and rugby balls because he loves sport so going to the give these to the football Fairy at some point as they have gone flat. We do have a pump but they outside covering coming away so need to go.

I feel that things are taken shape and now going to drink my tea and work on my book I am finishing for my Autumn Reset and so getting there but have to understand that somethings have to be put on hold sometimes and make sure that they will get done.

Many thanks for reading,

Carrie X

How to Keep going When you want to turn back

09 Friday Oct 2026

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There are times where I become resistant like walking and wanting to turn back to go home. Shutting the door to the world and hibernate for the autumn and winter gets quite strong, but once I complete a walk, I feel so good. I have to remind myself that everything I do will have an impact on my wellbeing and so as much as my mind and body resist doing what I have set out, it will help me to move me forward to completing my goals.

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Doing a Autumn Reset is a good reason to fight my resistance to turn back as it is start of a new year for me and get tasks finished. Just doing on thing I know I haven’t wasted any time. I like to set my own rota. Walt Disney would always do impossible projects and I have started to use that mindset. Anything is possible if you stop your resistance in achieving what you feel is impossible. It is all to do with mindset and not allow the negative to take over but I take note of it and a great excuse to do it.

I know for my radio show that as I think about writing my notes for my show my body will stop and be like “That’s too much” and so I will answer it and once done feel relieved and focus on reason why I make notes. It will help me with delivering a good show. I have that resistance editing my book because the “What ifs”. The human body protects itself and so any hard tasks feels like mount Everest but why breaking it down helps.

So if I just do one topic or one section I’ve done something and believe in my own capabilities. I was someone who would look for an excuse not to do something. I was fine once it was done but would feel like a car stalling and just want to avoid the challenge. Now though I got rid of excuses, I do what suits my days and time. I like to edit my book on Mondays. I like to do a tidy in the morning, afternoon I like to do a workout and I love morning walks and shopping as soon as shops are open and so just going by the time of the day that suits my lifestyle helps me not turn back and doing a weekly lay out of my days, has really had a good amount benefits and having a good whole day to get tasks done and knowing I didn’t just waste a day, makes me resist in turning back.

It can be so easy to give up. It can be so easy to avoid tasks. It can be easy to hide away from the world, but if you get stuck in a rut something needs to change and so to move forward do a task a day if it helps. I find it hard to do a big declutter for example so I do it as I go and it is great way to get things together, like I will go upstairs to take a clean set of clothing washed and bring down a finished toilet roll. I will after making my bed, get ready for the day and take some laundry downstairs into the washing machine and if you are married and have kids, delegate if it helps.

Why go it alone? Sunday’s my husband cooks the dinner, my son will help take cleans clothes upstairs and my mum will come with me to my sons rugby club and so that can help if you find it hard to do tasks alone.

Do what suits you and works around your lifestyle.

Many thanks for reading,

Carrie X

Why Do We Leave Things Unfinished?

30 Wednesday Sep 2026

Posted by Carries Blog Network in Autumn Reset, Friendships and relationships, having bad days, health and wellbeing, journal, Living, Personal Development, Planning 2026, Printables, Yearly Reset

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Looking Back on Old blogs for my Autumn Reset

20 Sunday Sep 2026

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Reposting For My Collection of PAST Autumn Reset blogs

18 Friday Sep 2026

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Passed Autumn Reset Blogs.

17 Thursday Sep 2026

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Why Autumn Is Good Season

09 Wednesday Sep 2026

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It is good season because it is time to let things go, restart and for me is my favourite season as I plan projects, getting my home in order and getting my son ready for school and is a good time to complete and why I set up my autumn reset programme so we can finish tasks and I building up my health by exercising more and changing my eating habits with a few naughty foods, but try alternatives.

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I love a soup and a roll and today by not buying so many processed foods and getting more whole foods, which has helped me spend less on my weeks shop. I am realising that it is good to have a mixture of things. It has helped me, watching those cooking on Instagram. It has helped me cook homemade meals and puddings again which can be good it all depends on what it is and I do feel better for it.

I suppose this may be the worst thing, but I like the dark mornings. I like to have time to read and since doing that I have felt so good and have list of things I’d like to do, like having a coffee up at Wimbledon Village, having a coffee in Gail’s and walking to Ashtead Village and have a coffee and so still do some walking and just good time to plan a countryfied walk and enjoying where I live.

There was a time where I’d find it hard getting up in the mornings but this morning I felt good and I like to get back wearing my tracksuit bottoms and where I have a bath, wear a T-Shirt and PJ bottoms but altering my wardrobe this autumn. I am getting rid of my current PJ’s as I prefer bottoms that have pockets and this is the same with shorts, tracksuit bottoms and Jeans.

It is good to have a clean up and I used to do Seasonal Clean ups on my Youtube channel, let me know if you want me to bring these back. The link to my Youtube channel is here: https://www.youtube.com/@Carriechalloner I like having a clear out and check out recent video I did about having a health reset this year: https://youtu.be/kWeigemntCs

Doing a meal plan even if it is a scrap piece of paper, what I tend to use. I am recycling a lot this year and saving bits of paper, I am having a quiet coffee or tea. This is in the morning and I do have some mugs I use in the Autumn. Check out this blog post: Taking The Time to Just Enjoy Your Coffee Inc. Weekly Cheat Sheet and seen some nice new mugs in Waitrose so going to take a trip and may buy and change up my mugs for Autumn as in some areas I like investing in new things for the home and it is good to start a fresh and that is what makes an autumn reset for me and lets do it together and perhaps set up a group. This may be for the future but let me know what you think? You can leave a comment below.

So lets enjoy and have those nice cosy drinks and food, along with a new mindset to get those tasks you’ve not managed to finish done.

Many thanks for reading,

Carrie X

Monthly Newsletter: October 2025

21 Tuesday Oct 2025

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Hi Everyone! Not that far away now for Christmas and sorry if you aren’t ready but it is moving towards it and where I have to think of good gifts. I have a few birthdays coming up before hand so a busy time of year, It is also time for my Monthly Newsletter. Check it out below:

October Newsletter 2025Download

They are completely free to download and print. I love creating them and posting.

If you’d like to be kept in the know of my blogs on this site and printables then you can do so. Just subscribe.

Many thanks for reading,

Carrie X

Autumn Reset: Getting Up at 4am Is Up To You

03 Friday Oct 2025

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For a while I had been getting up really early with no alarm, just relying on my body clock and not going back to bed because I’d end up having a nightmare and would feel overly tired.

Last week I was shattered and was even told I look tired and was feeling agitated and yet like as I start this blog, realised I can still read and do a bit of writing on my laptop, by not getting up super early. I would some mornings be wide awake, but by 2pm I’d feel wiped out.

I have changed my routine and still been awake early, but brush my teeth and just chill and the get up at 6am. So do successful people get up at 4am or is it a myth? A trend?

Not getting up a 4am I can still have my first cup of tea, read and be in bed and turn the light off and if I get a couple more hours of sleep, then I listen to my body and obey it.

Steven Bartlett doesn’t get up early. He never books appointments before 11am. I think it is choice and what each persons body, tells them if they are an Early Bird or a Night Owl. Yes my son is an early bird, but I want to stay in bed, then I will. It is what I feel like and what suits me as an individual.

I was going to bed early but I would be awake by midnight fighting with my tiredness, feeling wide awake taking ages to go back to sleep. So now I stay up between 9pm to 11pm and I find it works better for me.

What works for you

Yes I have heard theories about if you go to bed early you wake up earlier but like I have said, my body and mind likes to sleep when I feel actually tired enough and I like to spend time doing a bit of writing in the early evening and then watch some TV and that is what works for me.

When some people do night shifts they still have to sleep and one of my uncles did that for years and so it is what suits a persons lifestyle. They still need to eat and stay hydrated, stay clean and have some winding down time.

So if you want to get up at 4am and it suits you, great, if not then do what works for you. You are your own boss and your choice, going on your lifestyle and what helps you to sleep well, to function well.

Many thanks for reading,

Carrie X

Autumn Reset: Three Things To Avoid When Doing a Reset

19 Friday Sep 2025

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Hello! If you are new here then each year in September I do a Autumn Reset. I go through a number of items to complete, to kick start the change of, a new season, to help kick start the new Academic year and started doing this two years ago. I have done a printable to help you, please click here: Autumn Reset Worksheet 2025

I was going through what I do each day and I find filling up my mind, can get a bit tiresome and so I avoid these when doing a Reset:

  1. Try not to fill up my mind with too much, by not being on my laptop all day, put my phone somewhere out of easy reach and read once I have had a break from screens and watched a bit of light TV, along with being quiet.
  2. Not taking breaks. I find it hard to write all day and like to do it short spells. So will take a break by washing up dishes, cleaning and tidying. One of my items is to complete the first draft of another book. So far It has gone well.
  3. Not doing a recap of what I have done in the day. Not necessarily writing it down, but in my mind and helps to see what I have done and realize I have done more than, what I have realised.

It is good to not wear yourself down. It is good to have a few things done, its not about how many things you can do. It is about the result post Autumn Reset.

Go through how it has made you feel, e.g. Completing an Essay, completing a room makeover, cleaned your entire house or like me, completed a draft of a book you are writing.

A recap is good to address your feelings whether good or bad, measuring your progress. I talk about doing a Mind Map, because it is motivating and it directs you.

Then going through, example: You’ve written a paragraph of the Essay. How many words does it have to be? When is the deadline? To get my book finished I know if I use my Mornings and evenings, where I know I have a good amount of time to write, even if it is for 10 minutes, I will complete the revised first draft to then start editing. My aim is to write,’ 40,000 words and I am doing some training to help me.

You may discover areas of difficulty. That is fine. There are plenty of free sources. I have a Education YouTube channel myself: https://www.youtube.com/@CarrieEducationalYoutube-ws4xp and there are TED Talks, Youtube University and even LinkedIn have free courses and I have done courses via OfCourse: https://www.ofcourse.co.uk/ and check out, Skill share.: https://www.skillshare.com/en

If you are joining me and you have tips on getting the projects completed, for this years Autumn Reset, then please share in the comments section below.

You can subscribe to this site for free and you will be notified every time I post, on this site and do many different programmes on this site, like The Summer Project which has ended, but will be back in 2026 and to come my Winter Wellness.

I do have a new book out. It is called Mum&Me and is available via Kindle and Paperback: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Mum-Me-Gucci-Tits-Virtue/dp/B0BGNF4LNF

I also have a vlog channel. I am taking a break so will be back with vlogs in October: https://www.youtube.com/@typicallondongal

I have have a YouTube Channel where I talk about Money and Finance: https://www.youtube.com/@financialliving

Many thanks for reading,

Carrie X

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